Sairam friends,
I often receive mails from girls who are just 22-25 saying that they are not able to find their soul-mate.
Well. there are girls who are 28-35 and when they write me that they can’t find their soul-mate, I understand what they mean because that’s the time when they should really be concerned about getting married.
But why on earth girls who are just 22-25 worry so much that they aren’t married?
Some girls get married earlier and for some it gets delayed. The same applies for guys too.
But when I see girls who are so young wants to get married soon, I don’t have any clue about what they aspire to do with their life?
On the other hand, there are girls who are in relationship right from their school or college days and keep waiting for the guy to marry them. This too isn’t always safe because when you are young, you never know if this guy really loves you and deserves you.
I like girls who are ambitious and not the one’s who simply do some odd job. Most of the girls who’s parents can spend money for higher studies or even to go abroad for doing their M.S or Ph.d too will never take effort to do it. They will simply do some odd job.
Why I write this?
Because I always believe education will certainly change someone’s life. The more you learn, the better your life will be.
So focus on what you can learn and how you can grow ahead in your Career.
You might eventually meet the right guy or probably, your parents might find one for you. Atleast wait until you are 25-26 to start worrying about marriage.
22-23 is certainly not an age at all to think of getting married but unfortunately, so many girls are getting married early these days.
One side, there are men and women, who aren’t married on time and other side, there are poeple who marry too early without even thinking about what they want from their life.
I am worried about the country as a whole. I don’t know what millions of young Indians are going to do to earn their living?
It’s honestly bothering me. Atleast plan your life with patience.
And yes. Why I often speak about going abroad to learn? Its expensive but eventually, if you settle abroad, some other Indian will be getting the job that you occupy.
Going out of a country doesn’t make you less patriotic. You are leaving your space, your job to someone who desperately needs it.
And for Gods sake, don’t worry that you aren’t married.
If you have patience, Sai will do good.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
