Sairam friends,
On several occasions, I have seen myself worry a lot and also get upset since I try to justify that I am right or my words/decisions are right. I try to think too much and in the end only loose my peace of mind. Gradually, I have understood, trying to “Justify” is also a kind of ego.
We may be right but we must not expect everyone to understand us and agree that we are right.
I also have habit of pin pointing past negative happenings in life and saying others have harmed me a lot. Well. It is true but there is no use in blaming others. I have to look forward and grow ahead in life.
We must be able to accept failures, disappointments and insults as much as we accept the positive aspects of life. One of the best ways to overcome the habit of justifying you are right is by accepting the natural tendency for everyone to perceive their belief alone is right. If we have a different belief or thought process, we must be clear in our idea and never expect others to agree with us.
Its simple. Realize that the world won’t agree with you no matter how much you justify.
So why think about people who say you are wrong. Get away from them.
I am sure God has atleast one person who agrees with you and believes in you. So think about them and do all you can for them.
Sai will agree with you if what you did is right according to him.
Just focus on where Saibaba keeps you. All others are mere actors.
Sai blessings
Venkat
