Sairam friends,
One of the reason I often request both guys and girls writing me about their relationship problem to focus on their studies and career is that a good career will help them to get through any issues with confidence. This article is especially for families in small town of India.
When ever these girls likes a girl and their parents dislike such behaviour, they immidiately try to find alliance for the girl no matter how young she is.
I have this wonderful friend of mine who just completed her studies and began her career.
She has gone through a rough past and managing to lead her life by Sai grace now. Recently, She told me that one of this guy who’s her distant relative wanted to marry her and going to speak to her parents about it. She was frustrated since She plans to do her post graduation. Even when She clarified this guy about this, he insisted on meeting her parents without her consent. I make fun of this guy to her often but when I look at it seriously, even in 2018, most guys assume they can marry a girl irrespective of what she plans to do with her life.
So you think you can marry a girl just because her parents find you to be a right guy? Don’t you have a good job? Similarly, every girl too might have goals and dreams about how to shape her career.
You can’t hinder a girl’s dream with your desire to marry her.
At times, I worry a lot about this girl as She’s close to me.
I often tell her that She must be ambitious, do her post grad, find a better job, be in the job for few years and then only think about getting married. This goes with her idea too but we never know what Saibaba has planned for her. Most of these girls are like my children and when ever any guys bother them, it irritates me to core.
One of my friend got relieved from office today. Thankfully, he escaped an idiot as he was on leave. So we went to have dinner in a italian restaurant. I liked the environment but not a fan of such food though. I just felt happy for him as he will now have a better career. Its been almost 3 years since he came to Coimbatore, got married and now leaving for better opportunity. I would really miss him as very few poeple we come across in life are worth remembering.
We went to the Saibaba temple near office late at 10 PM. The Dwarakamai was closed and hence we sat there for a while.
I came back and told my Mom that my friend is leaving Coimbatore over the weekend. My Mom knows him well and asked me to take him home tonight if possible.
Anyway, coming back to the theme of this article, please do not bother a girl just because you wish to marry her.
The reason I always request girls to focus on their career is this.
Many women write me about their problems. Those who have good career can manage any problems easily since they are financially independent. Surprisingly, I have come across girls who marry and never work. Why should they study? What would happen to their experience? This Nation has given you everything and you can’t simply sit in home assuming your husband is going to earn his living forever.
I am getting later for work now.
I pray Saibaba for girls who dreams to do a lot with her life than getting married.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
I remember most people that have come into my life; they are all worth remembering because they are all souls, and God wanted them to be or pass through my life. I remember you for example, even though you know thousands of people. You once did something kind for me and Sai Baba. Thank you! I will not forget you, and Baba doesn’t forget anyone. 🙂