Sairam friends,
The past few days I come across girls who tell me they are worried as they can’t find the right guy to marry and their parents are worried about their life. It takes some time for everything in life. Patience matters. Meanwhile, do something to distract yourself from such worries.
The other day, one of my friend told me, she felt lonely and went out with a guy. Later, she din’t liked him at all and felt why should she go on a date just because she felt there’s no one for her. I told her to be calm and not be in hurry to find someone whom she can marry. Many people do this mistake. Just because you feel lonely, doesn’t mean, some guy or girl’s company will be make you happy. It could be a disaster too.
And there are other kind of girls who hold on to one specific guy and wanted to marry him. Well, go marry na? What’s stopping you? If something is stopping you, it just means there’s always a probability. There’s this paper called Quantitative Techniques in Management studies. You find this probability theory really good.
You start a business – a venture and there’s a probability if it would be successful or not.
Same applies to your life. You wait for a guy or a girl beliving he/she will be yours. You can’t be sure about it. There’s a probability theory being applied by your karmic bond with your love. If you are not meant to marry, that could never happen. Sometimes, not marrying someone also is a blessing. You never know how someone would change after they marry you.
To such guys and girls who hold on to someone specific, let me clarify this. Keep yourself free. If there’s a pain in relationship, better be free of it. If things goes well, be true to it and marry. If you can’t find true in love in any relationship, please move on.
There are good people everywhere. You just don’t know them.
So pray Saibaba to bless you with good people around you.
Be flexible in life.
Keep doing chanting of Sai’s holy name in mind.
Your life will be good
Venkat
