Sairam friends,
In my previous article about my friends encounter with a man in a temple of another religion, I had told that he was blamed saying he tried to kiss a little girl. This guy felt bad about people trying to blame him and humiliate him but he never told me the incident as if he lost something.
Don’t blame innocent people just to feel excited
He told me the incident humorously. He told me how he countered the Father of the kid saying “You are not from a good family. That’s why he make stories to get me into problem”.
The way he spoke in Tamil made me really enjoy the conversation. If I am in such a situation, I would have felt really painful.
Last year when the girl at work and another female raised a complaint against me without my knowledge, I took it very seriously and lost my sleep for over 2-3 month. This guy felt bad about what happened to him but he was laughing at behaviour of these Men.
I remembered this saying..
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
I have only taken everything that happened to me seriously and get depressed. There are people who take things light. They ignore even when people humiliate them and in a way its a good quality. This temple friend of mine laughs and smiles when he speaks about the problems he faces.
There’s this guy who joins me and my friend for lunch in office. My friend usually makes fun of him. So I told him about the experience of the my friend in temple. That he was simply sitting in a corner in some religion temple and a little kid came around him. He just smiled to her and said something to her because we all speak to kids. So the Father of the kid abused him saying he tried to kiss the kid and drove him out of temple.
I told him how humourosly my friend was telling what he experienced. So we both imagined what if we send one of our friend in office to same place. During lunch, we told him that they are giving delicious dinner at night. Go there and just make sure you photograph all kids will your mobile. We imagined what would happen to him and laughed so much.
Infact, we will continue this today to have fun.
Anyway, finally, I am not enjoying feeding the Dogs in the campus. Now a days, there are 4 to 6 Dogs and hence they are barking with each other. I feel bad that these Dogs are disturbing others. Already, my friends are saying I will get into problem as I feed Dogs. Hope Sai gives me a solution because I feel pity when the Dogs come behind me and can’t quit feeding Snowy.
Last night, I went to Saibaba temple near office and felt good. The security there told me that he migrated from Thanjavur to Coimbatore before 30 years. He has a Son and Daughter, both married and he’s happy in life as they also have a home in Coimbatore. I feel happy to see such people who feel content with their life as they get old.
You must tell people that you have lived a fulfilling life.
Even when you face difficulties, please take it light. Smile.
Sai will live in your heart.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
