Learn to accept what happens in life

Sairam friends,

A humble request. I know some of you are going through pain and you can’t bear it anymore. You can worship Saibaba and seek his blessings but you must also be clear about one strange aspect in life. Most of us have accepted what ever happens in life and move on. There are some issues which we can’t change as we are bonded by our family members and the society in it-self. Hence, don’t feel guilty as some one else is suffering because of you or you are not in a situation to come out of a problem.

I shall vouch you something. Just hold on and accept life as it comes. This is especially because when your life goes in one direction, you can’t pull it the other side.

Thousands of Men and Women including me are living today as we learned to accept the failures in our career, relationships and several other disappointments.

If you think that Sai baba did not help you. Be clear about this. Saibaba did not help these thousands of people in several issues. Not all prayers are answered. May be, Sai thought our life will be better if he remains silent. So instead of confusing yourself, feeling guilty or worrying about what’s ahead of you, think positive and live in peace.

I cannot personally guide every one especially since I don’t want to become a wall between you and Sai. Kindly focus on Sai.

Remember him deeply.

Read Sai Satcharitra

Eat well and sleep well.

Read good books

Do not think you did a mistake. If you are not able to change something, then, its not your fault. You are controlled by several external forces like family, society and your past karmic deeds. Internally, all you have is your ability to keep yourself strong and be calm.

Instead of focusing on what’s not going to happen, focus on what’s going to happen.

Focus on happiness

Focus on good health

and

Focus on reality

And the best part is

In India, Your reality is controlled by others including your family members.

Need I say more?

If you are born in India, you must have more inner stability, inner peace and inner devotion because everything out is going to shatter you.

I want you to live and live happy.

Yes.Life is not giving you what you desire.

Think about kids living in the streets. Other day, I saw a women who made a 7 year old sit on the road and she was taking alms. I wanted to give some money but walked away as I thought it will become a habit for this women to make money showing the kid.

I understand you big failures but did you suffer like this child?

I am pretty sure most of you who read this were blessed with good family, food and other happiness of childhood.

Think of people who’s life is worse than you.

They are living with us only. They are surviving and thriving.

You too can withstand all these pains, be strong internally and grow ahead in life.

Note – I receive several mails in a day and since I am myself going through some problems and I have other responsibilities, I can’t guide everyone personally but I pray for you.I pray that you take life as Gods gift and accept life as it comes.

Live for happiness of your parents, your husband/wife, your kids.

Live for yourself.

Live peacefully because Sai wants you to.

Om Sai Ram

Venkat