Sairam friends,
Most of the problems which happens in life starts with simple conversations. Someone we consider as a good friend might face an issue and they start to vent it out with us. We casually continue to speak to them but remember this. When you speak about a topic that isn’t right, you are emotionally getting into it. Chances are there that they might be out of the problem they face but you will start to think a lot about these unnecessary issues. I do not mean to say there are few issues which one must never discuss. What I mean is, even someone you consider as a good friend might only spoil you and your way of life.
If someone spoils your thought process, they are taking control of your future which might otherwise be good.
Meanwhile, here’s a Pencil sketch contributed by an ardent Sai devotee.
I thank Dedeepya Sai from Andhra Pradesh for this simple Saibaba sketch and the mail below.
Few years back, if you wanted to discuss with a friend, you actually do it through spoken language. Hence, it’s hard to speak when your family members or other friends are around. Today, when even the most important conversations happen over texting, its easy for anyone to influence you.
Words have power
Earlier, I have wrote about how important it is to see only good. This article is about “Speaking and listening good”.
Words – Both spoken and written are very powerful. Today, people share Meme and other stuff online. They waste their time laughing at things which to me is dangerous because if we keep on laughing, how are we going to gain knowledge and innovate?
Relationships and words
Apart from this, relationships happens through words and some relationships only happen to ruin your life. So be careful about what you discuss. Not all whom you consider as friends are good as you trust them to be. They might be good today but they might change at any point of time. They might indulge you in topics which isn’t right to discuss and move on. You know what happens to you? They are actually passing on their experiences with you which starts to decay your mind. When mind is decayed, it hurts your action.
Being a website dedicated for Sai, I try not to convey anything directly. I am writing subtly so that you will understand what I mean.
So why does it matter to Speak, See and Listen to good?
So what’s the big issue if you are just living your life. You can. Sai doesn’t object it. Just that you are allowing the evil vibration to get into you and your house or where ever you live. You are allowing friends who to take too much advantage on you. You might achieve a lot if you use your time productively.
If someone starts to discuss about things which you think is not right. Kindly, move away from them gradually.
It’s good for you.
I repeat, All problems starts with simple conversations.
It’s up to you to decide what’s good for you and the kind of friends you need.
Sai Baba will be happy if you learn to avoid friends who are not pure at heart. Do not encourage such friends, get into some relationship and come back to Sai when you are hurt in future.
You are shaping your life. Sai is just watching.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
Jai Sai Ram