Lust can ruin yourself and your family – Get rid of bad thoughts and deeds by doing Sai Meditation

Sairam friends,

One of the problems I never addressed in StarSai for all these 7 years is directly writing about Lust. This being a spiritual website, I don’t want to write directly about it but today I created a separate section – “Sai Family” to address such issues.

A couple of years back when I was in Mumbai, I got a dream about Kaliyug and how people will be tempted and mesmerized more by their desire for women and men (physically). Kali Purushais doing his dharma for this yuga but it remains in your own decision to lead a pure life or go behind the desire for women or men and ruin your life and that of your family.

You have the ability to change yourself and lead a Pure life

There’s no Guru in this universe to save you if you are behind the need for silly pleasures. Kindly do not come to Saibaba if you, again and again, fall prey to such pleasures and show the external world as if you are good and pure. Of course you can always be with sai no matter what you do but whose life is ruined? It’s your life.

There are women whose life is ruined because of men who don’t care for their own wife and the same happens to some men also making them suffer like hell.

If these men and women have children, ultimately the whole family is ruined.

Trust me, I am not asking you to be a saint – holy and pure without thoughts of other men/women.

All I am requesting is to focus on your own family and be realistic. God has blessed you with someone in a holy married life, then accept your wife/husband as Gods gift to you and show your love to her/him.

There’s nothing that can change your spoilt mind unless you realize it’s time to do it.

I am writing this article at 1 o clock at night when my old father is not feeling well and my Amma is helping him have something. Why should i write such an article on Sai’s site?

I would like to tell you a leela,

During the times when Sai lived in Shirdi, a devotee came to Dwarakamai to have his darshan. He was so much attracted to shirdi saibaba that he requested Sai to be his Guru. Sai replied him

“You do not need a Guru. Ever thing is within yourself – What you show, you reap”

How beautiful were these words from a saint whom millions of us consider us Guru. It’s true friends, there are few issues which sai don’t want to involve in because Sai wants us to take efforts to follow the right path.

Millions of Men and Women today are failing in their

personal life

professional life

and even losing health and wealth due to their addiction.

You are responsible for your life friends. Going to Shirdi or doing any pooja won’t help you unless you gradually command your mind to “Think Pure”

I know very sure that this article cannot change you and there’s no pooja or mantra that can change your Lover/Husband/Wife. All that can be done is to bring about change internally with one’s own interest.

How to command yourself to Think Pure and act Pure:

Sai Meditation

Remember there are no rules in this Sai Dhyana – I created it by sai grace simply to motivate you and show you a way to remember Sainath.

1. keep a Shirdi Saibaba photo, statue, or simply photos of any Gods/Goddess you love.

2. Sit in front of the Divine Photo as relaxed as you can in any comfortable position

3. Close your eyes and start Chanting –

Om Sai Ram

Ommmmm Saaaayeeeee Raaaaaaaam

Ommmmm Saaaayeeeee Raaaaaaaam

Ommmmm Saaaayeeeee Raaaaaaaam

Om Sai Ram…

do this for a few minutes – 5 minutes

4. Imagine you are in Dwarakamai in front of Shirdi Saibaba

Visualize Holy fire – Dhuni, Sai sitting in there with his powerful eyes, offer him Roses, Jasmine, and light 3 lamps to sai in your imagination itself. You can imagine as you wish to see baba

5. Now offer your bad habits in the Holy Fire Dhuni of Saibaba. Imagine that you are really with Sai in his Dwarakamai and offering your bad thoughts, deeds, Bad habits, and your lust – kam-krodh in the fire.

6. Now offer the good things too in Dhuni- Imagine you are offering coconut and fruits in Holy dhuni of Saibaba.

7. Continue to chant Aum Sai Ram or any chantings of Sai/Gods you love to chant in Mind.

8. Now relax………… Think of your whole body as being offered to the holy feet of Sainath, Think that you are placing your head in the holy feet of Guru.

9. Sai is blessing you keeping his palm over your head…feel it internally.

Now give commands to your subconscious mind

1. I have become a pure responsible son/daughter – Husband/Wife – Mother/Father. Say what ever suits your role.

2. I am going to leave all past habits and lead a simple peaceful life with my family

3. I am blessed by sai this very day to lead a pure happy life.

4. Sai has changed me – My life is more meaningful.

5. Saibaba is taking care of everyone in my family

the sixth point is anything you must tell your mind and what you want to focus

it could be your good desire, wish to be fulfilled,

It could be your personal life desire or career goal and believe that Sai will show you a way for a better life.

10. Now continue to chant

Aum Sai Ram peacefully for 5 minutes

Open your eyes and look at the Photo or Shirdi Saibaba, God/Goddess realize his greatness

Yes – Sai has changed you but remember it’s your own effort.

As Sai always says

If you take one step towards me, I will take 100 steps towards you.

Take one step every day to lead a pure responsible meaningful life and Sai will take 100 steps to safeguard your family.

This is the first post in “Sai Family’

Hope you create a beautiful Sai family too, friends

Venkat

Always in the holy feet of Shirdi Saibaba

May 25th 2012

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