Sairam friends,

Happy Valentine’s day. Its my Sister’s birthday and hence a very special day in our family. I also have a message for all of you on this beautiful day.

Be thankful to Sai for each and everyone he has blessed you with and don’t regret if someone special is ignoring you

One of the most touched issue in StarSai is “Relationship”. Just scroll through the Relationship Category and you will know how many hours I would have spent writing for people facing problems in relationship. I did that because I suffered enough in my life. Now, I just have two simple message from Sai.

1. “Its not right to love someone wrong”

Hundreds of girls has wrote me saying that they love someone and the guy brokeup or their parents are not OK for getting them married due to caste/status issue. Its been 12 years. A Man has been listening to stories from Sai children across India and the whole world for 12 years. Imagine, having a spiritual site and listening to love stories every other day. he he..Now you know why I touch relationship issues in my articles. I understand its painful but keep your mind strong and analyze how you can divert your mind and get out of this pain.

I always wonder why Sai made me like some girl and in the end it didn’t work out. Had it not happened, I would have not have this respect I have on women.

If you get a girl easily in your life, you won’t value her presence

The same applies to women too..

If you girl a Man easily in your life, he will be just another someone you choose to marry and not the one who came into your life as a divine gift

I keep repeating, I have 15 years more to live. To actually do something productive and meaningful. After that, even if I live, I am simply going to survive.  Having said that, these days, I told Baba “I spent 2/3rd of my life being single. So if you want me to remain single forever, I don’t mind but neither you nor I can answer my parents’.

The second message from Sai is this

2. Be thankful for God blessed you with wonderful people around you

Love pain is a killer. It erodes the walls of your heart. I understand, you only have one special Man/Women in your life but don’t you think God also has others around you who really cares for you? Think about wonderful parents, siblings, amazing friends and even strangers who did something good to you though they know nothing about you. When I was depressed due to an issue from September 2016, Sai blessed me with a beautiful dream during New Year. The message is conveyed in the below article

Open your heart to everyone

I have seen some girls being too much in love with their boyfriend. I like it. Happy haan? Good going as long as the guy doesn’t change or situation doesn’t change. You come to StarSai only if you are going through a twist in the story. Be kind to everyone whom you come across in your life because you might find true love in the one whom you never bothered. Sai might have failed me. The girls I had trusted in past has failed me. But my life has become more meaningful because I have touched lives of hundreds of girls whom I would never meet. My writings comes from Sai and it has the life to touch you deep down your heart.

I wish you too learn to realize the greatness of being thankful to everyone in your life be it men, women or child.

You know Sai loves his devotees taking care of each other. Even yesterday, when my friend dropped me in Saibaba temple from office, I told him, I feel good to make it to Sai temple even if I remain there just 5 minutes before they close the temple. This is because, I don’t go there actually to pray. I go there to see people. I have a new circle of friends in temple. I don’t even speak to them but when I distribute prasad standing in Dwarakamai, I see them and they see me. Sometimes, we smile and at times, we do some small talk.

My life is filled with 4 different group of people I come across

1. Friends at work place.
2. Friends I know from StarSai whom I affectionately call as “Sai friends”
3. People in Saibaba temple whom I meet regularly and some close friends there
4. Professional friends through my new site

( There’s a Valentine’s day message in new site too – Love your work )

I care for everyone I come across in live. This is what Sai taught me to do. Loving one person and deeply wanting them alone is fine but remember the world has many other beautiful people around. So be kind and show that you care to everyone whom you come across in life. I also show my anger on my friends and only parents parents know that if I love someone truly, I get annoyed with them and shout at them when they do a little mistake or misunderstand me.

Now a days, I also get mails from guys who are brokeup. Enna paathaa ungaluku ellam epidi iruku? You think I am here to communicate with Sai and miraculously bring your love back?

Be clear about this. I am here to tell you the truth.

Only true love works and if it doesn’t work, it isn’t love at all. Sai just made you go through an experience.

The best thing Sai taught me is this. If you love someone dearly, let them go and let them celebrate their life as they wish. Keep away and keep moving.

Someone whom you truly desever will come into your life. sometime soon.

With that message, I shall move on too.

Its my Sister’s birthday. So parents had given for pooja in near by temple. Its been 6-7 years since I saw my Sister and I don’t think she’s gonna come to India anytime soon. So all I have is prayers for her. I shouted at my Father this morning as he was bugging me to take a printout of a train ticket for his friends in temple. He asked me why am I getting angry like this?

Well. I am like this.

Good to the whole world and bad to people who are dear to me.

I lost it.

Most of my life.

Atleast, you be smart. As I always say

“I wish every other person gets what I lost in my life”

Venkat

The featured photo is a painting made by my Sister’s little daughter Katya few years back.