Overcoming break Up by grace of Shirdi Saibaba

Sairam friends,

Once again an article for people who are facing problems in relationship. This time, I like to be practical than emotional because I don’t want anyone to go through sufferings like I did in my past.

There were times in my life when I used to be really hurt and depressed. I would ask Shirdi Saibaba to bless me with the one I like and almost crazy for the girl I like. Now, when I look back, I realize these are relationships which would have never worked even if I had married the girl. Sai has only saved me from worst.

Why we like someone?

When there are so many around us, we specifically like someone or probably made to like. We believe its all happening by Gods/Sai’s grace and continue with the relationship.For some, these happy days exist for few weeks, for some its few month and many others, it goes on to years.

So why do we like someone and in the end face problems? Its all Karmic bond. We are simply paying back our debt.

Most relationships in India fail because parents are deciding factor. Its fast changing but we can’t blame them too. Some couples get married without parents acceptance and few of them do go through problems and may end up in divorce.

Apart from this, the break ups which are most happening are the one due to misunderstanding between the girl and the guy. One person alone will keep thinking about the other and praying for them to get back in relationship. I have a simple example if you are going through such suffering.

In 2012, when I was really depressed, I opened a full version of Sai Satcharitra and read as below

“Relationships are like meeting of two wooden logs in a river. It seems like we are going to be together forever but within no time, a current of water might sweep away the wooden log.”

So if you are struggling to cope up with break up, kindly remember that Saibaba can help you only if you remain strong and accept reality. Think about people lower than you. There are so many problems in this world. Think about people facing worst pain due to health problem. You are certainly going to be fine. May be you will meet someone better by Sai grace in future.

Never have revenge on someone who left you. Nature has its own law and it will teach everyone a lesson. You remain calm and divert your mind for a better life.

One of the reason, I wanted to write this today because over the years, I have wasted my time worrying a lot.

If you are really in pain, please relax.

Just make yourself busy.

Do something useful for yourself or others.

Make your self occupied with something good.

I wasted most of my life worrying about relationships which did not work. Even now, I fear to get married because I don’t know how my life is going to be? Now, as I get old, I can see its all a matter of ability to accept any problems in life. I must have done something useful for myself and others.

At least now, Sai made me realize what’s good for me will come to me by his grace.

So believe in yourself and be confident.

Do not worry too much.

Please be happy

Your life will be good

Sai blessings

Venkat