Hi,
I always write alone in StarSai sitting in my room but since I have off for 3 days, I am working on various projects and also wanted to try something new to keep Sai devotees engaged. One of my friends (We both decided not to reveal her name since she was going through some relationship problems and thankfully coming out of her worries).
I asked her if she can write what positive changes she wishes to bring in herself. Initially, she did not understand what I meant. I told her clearly to write on a paper about what she wishes to change in herself, take a photo of it, and send it to me.
She thought for a while and messaged be as below…
“The things which I want to change in myself is…
1. I want to change my heart, soul, and mind because, I trust people very soon, and this affects me later.
2. I want to control my emotions because very soon I get involved with others feelings, and people think I am showing off
3. I want to change my habit of thinking a lot and a lot…”
Before we see the handwritten resolution, have a look at the beautiful Ganesha Rangoli she had made.
Ganesha Rangoli my friend made in her house
My friend also wants to convey this message:
Please if possible, mention these lines in your article.
Dear Girls,
Don’t give ur 100% in a relationship give only 50%. I m not saying that don’t fall in love immensely but keep eyes of mind also open not only eyes of heart.So that when the guy ditches you, at that time, the remaining 50% helps you
To stand again,
Smile again,
Face the world again
and learn to love yourself and make yourself as first priority.
Learn to Change yourself for a beautiful life ahead of you
Positive changes to come out of relationship problems and worries
I personally believe this message suits everyone out there no matter what worries you are going through. Take a paper and write what you wish to change in yourself. If interested, you can hide your face, show up only your eyes and mail me the photos.
This is absolutely right. Never love anyone more than yourself. Never trust the people easily. Now a days people are badly misusing ur love and trust. Be careful..
yes its very true..thanx fr ur post venkat ji..om sri sai ram
Very true… I’m a silent reader of this blog and facing the same issue. Don’t ever give 100% in relationship which only hurts you. Just keep in mind its only you till the end. Be independent and lead your life so that you will not be hurt .
Extreme dependence is the cause of all troubles. In spirituality there is no place for logic.If the same dependence when kept on Baba will not only protect but also help us.The only thing required is just listen to Him obediently.