Why I tell people to have patience when it comes to getting married?

Sairam friends,

One of my friend whom I know from childhood got married before 5-6 years. His Father met with an accident and got head injury as he had not worn helmet. My friend has come down to take care of his Dad. Seems, he met my Mom while She had been to temple and talked to her. He had said that his Father’s condition is too bad. This guys wife also has not called up and spoken to him for over a month as he has come to take care of his Dad. He has told my Mom that he has taken off from work to be near his Dad.

My Mom told me this incident and asked me to be thankful to Sai for he has kept us safe. I asked my mom what’s the point in getting married? My friend has not asked his wife to take care of her Father in law. He has is doing it on his own. Is it right for a girl not even to speak to her husband over phone for this?

I have listened to several stories over these years from Sai devotees.

When ever someone faces a pain before marriage, I tell them not to worry much as it can be fixed. If something happens after marriage, you have to go through several issues. You have to answer your family, the society, your relatives, even friends.

There are some wonderful girls and guys. Before they are in to any relationship or married, their life will be peaceful. If not happy, atleast peaceful.

But if they do a mistake in choosing a wrong guy or girl, their life drastically changes and takes them in the negative side.

So please take your own time in getting married. Don’t fall for someone just because someone else hurt you. Have patience. Immense patience and think of this is the one whom you wish to spend rest of your life?

The problem starts with the parents. I know several parents who often worry too much that their children aren’t married. Trust me, they will eventually get married to someone good. You don’t have to loose your peace of mind and hurry up to get married.

Anyway, by Sai grace, we got the U.S Visa interview date confirmed. I will be coming to Chennai on July 24th for Biometric and July 26th is the interview. Hope Sai helps us get it. I came home and my Dad wasn’t well. I was awake until 1 at night as I was worried. Only Saibaba has to help me to take my parents to the U.S and come back safe. Its too cold in my Sister’s place.

Baba, please heal my Dad.

Sai blessings

Venkat