Sairam friends,
After years of experience with how Sai handles relationship issues for his devotees, I understood all relationships which happens in this birth are due to two reasons.
1.Good relationships which continues for lifetime happens due to good deeds we have done in previous birth.
2.Painful relationships which results in disharmony and breakup happens due to the sins we have done to some Men/Women in previous birth.
There are many devotees who worry about their parents, relatives, friends and most importantly someone whom they wanted to marry or Husband/Wife.
I am writing this for people who aren’t married.
Have patience.
Immense patience because its one life. Do not hurry and decide that the guy/girl you met is going to bring paradise down to Earth.
Look for any piece of information about them/their family which doesn’t convince you. If not, ask Sai to guide you if you are in right relationship. Sai certainly will bless you. Just that you must be so much devoted to Saibaba.
Ask me why I am not married for so long? I have always been told by Sai to stop myself even if I like a girl. Probably, Sai thinks it won’t work. Later, I realized its for welfare of both the girl involved and myself. So why so many warnings to me alone? he he….
Probably, I have commited several sins in previous births that I am supposed to go through all this pain. Thankfully, it has made me a better person.
So one after other, I am supposed to payback to girls and finally, I will have no more debt to payback.
Something that surprised me in the past 1 year is this – Not only the girl whom Saibaba showed in dream continuously fom September 2016. I have seen other girls at work in dream too once or twice. I used to wonder why Saibaba shows them in dream? I can’t accept the logic in which people say you see someone in dream as you think of them before you sleep. No. That’s not the case with Sai dreams. I will only see these girls for 5 to 10 seconds and it will be like Saibaba wants me to pray for their good life.
Infact, I have seen guys at workplace in dream. But only when those guys are frustrated with their work. Later after few months, I would see them feeling much better at workplace.
There are girls who very innocently tell me this. I went to Saibaba temple before commiting to this guy but he left me etc.
Be clear about this. The one who would stay with you will stay. The one who’s willing to leave you has already decided you are not important in their life. So let them go. What can Sai do? Sai simply watches silently but takes care of you too.
Never be a slave for any relationship. Be happy that you are free to build your life by Sai grace once again.
Look for small hints or behavioural changes in someone you trust. If they don’t seem to be the one whom you want to be, explain them what you are expecting. If they still don’t change, take it as a sign that they can’t keep you happy forever. These are small warnings Saibaba gives you. You only have to decide how to live alone and be strong internally.
Be it relationships, Career or any other issue, do not hurry. Have patience and see what works best for you.
Never get angry.
Never be greedy.
Be content with what you have in life.
Burn your lust or even appreciation of someone’s external appearance as a factor to be with them or marry them.
Be pure internally.
Saibaba will certainly guide you or help you with the best in life.
All packing is done for U.S trip. My Parents had really worked so much and completed everything. Its all done now. I am taking my DSLR and will make some videos also for you people. I might have to work from home too as I do video editing and don’t want to let down people when they need it. Having said that, I hope I could have a good time with my niece. Most importantly, my parents health should be good all through our journey and stay by Sai grace.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
