Sairam friends,
For the past 3 days one of my very good Sai friend kept asking me if Saibaba can give me any hint to take a decision. I told her, I shall pray for you. She continued to ask, please say ‘Yes” or “No”. She told me that its nothing for me but such an important decision for her. I assumed, its really a big issue and told her, I shall light a lamp for you. Don’t worry. Saibaba will only do good to you.
This morning, she again messaged saying one of her old friend has sent a friend request on Facebook and she wants Saibaba to guide her to accept it or not. May be, its really that big an issue for her but I very kindly told her, accept it and just know him better. This is all I could do. Until now she is worried and could not take a decision.
Ennala mudila Baba. Oruthana Facebook frienda accept panna 3 naal oru ponnu enaku message panni kekudhu. Yes or No..Say me what Sai is hinting you?
I don’t know if I must cry or laugh at her innocence.
This is a small issue but there are so many other major decisions we take in life related to work, business, education and family. We just have to be internally strong and take the right decision at the right time.
I am totally upset with the way we are getting use to Sai dreams and hints.
One of the reason my parents and sister scold me as soon as I speak about dreams is because they fear, I will only live based on dreams and not reality. I continue to ask Baba to guide me in dreams. May be, one find day, Sai will tell me a simple truth
“Am I not present in you as antaryami? Then, do what you want to do. That’s my decision”
Sai does give you some hints but I have personally experienced that even his assurance in dreams easily changes according to situation. Saibaba keeps his words but he changes his assurance if fulfilling it will only bring more problems to you. So kindly do not depend on Sai’s hints for every small or big decision in life.
Several girls wrote me exactly the below example
When I went to this guys home for first time, I saw Saibaba photo and hence I agreed to marry him. Some girls say that he’s a Sai devotee and hence I married him. Now, he changed a lot and I am suffering. Excuse me. Saibaba photo is every where. Sai devotees are of all kinds. Even someone with worse character could be a Sai devotee. Being a Sai devotee doesn’t make anyone good.
None of us can blame Saibaba for the decisions we took in life. We can only pray Sai to show us a way and help us escape from the bad situation or relationship.
Be bold and take decision based on what you believe in
Sometimes, Saibaba himself expects you to be bold and take decision on your own. That doesn’t mean you get a loan for several lakhs boldly and invest in a business..ha ha…when I say bold, be practical and take decisions thinking about future. See what really is good for you and go ahead with life.
I can tell you so many other examples
- If you want to tell someone you like him/her, express it. Don’t expect Saibaba to tell you want to do.
- If you want to change your job, try to apply for jobs and see how’s the market
- If you want to buy something you can afford, get it.
This is life. One life which you have to live to the fullest.
Saibaba is certainly going to be there for you but you too must take right decisions at the right time.
If you want to do something good, do it. Don’t expect Sai to spoon feed you
I know my sweet friend in Mumbai will surely get upset if she reads this article. Finally, what can I actually write? I think 1000 times to write about some experiences at work place. I think a lot to tell what’s happening in my own personal life. I also have to think if I will hurt my Sai friends if I tell their short comings.
I am Sai servant.
Clear. Pure and Crazy servant.
I express what comes to my mind and I believe Sai is the one who’s actually making me write.
Om Sai Ram
Venkat
