The probability of how some relationships happen?

Sairam friends,

This article is dedicated all my Sai children who are into relationship or worried about their relationship issues. Let me clarify. Some of you say that I always take a negative stand on relationships saying

“Keep your mind strong.”

“When things doesn’t happen as you desire, it doesn’t mean Sai did not care for you”

“Relationships are like wooden logs. Sometimes its natural to get seperated. So keep moving on with life”

I am not being negative but trying to stay neutral. You might marry the girl/guy you love or you might not but when things endup happily why would you need me or StarSai? You can just thank Sai and celebrate. Only when you face failures and obstacles in your relationship or getting married, you need someone to tell you “Things will be fine or atleast you can live happily even when this relationship fails”.

Having said that, I still wish all of you a beautiful life ahead. May be, Saibaba will bring you a beautiful, true love once again or you might focus on something more productive in your career that your life gets more meaningful. For Gods sake, don’t hurt yourself in this pain of loosing your love. It happens. It happens for everyone. It had happened to me several times and when I get old, I wanna do something to heal some of you in such pain.

So here’s it. A positive article as many of you desires.

I was just curious how some relationships happen. You know, At times, you come across a girl/guy in a School/College/Office or even when you travel in a Bus/Train or in a Restaurant. What if you both were not in the right place at the right time? Why did you meet and why all this happened. One of the most asked question to me is this

“If Saibaba knows we will seperate, why did he let us meet. I thought only Sai showed this girl/guy to me”.

Well. A million dollar question. Appreciate it. Its called Karmic bond. You are supposed to meet. Some are lucky enough to marry. Some are supposed to face pain. You have to experience this imagining Sai is doing the screenplay.

I got inspired to write this article after I saw this ad film yesterday – Lowe’s House Love

Synopsis

A family comes to live in the neighbourhood. The boy looks at the girl from the opposite house. He falls in love with her. Gradually, they become friends. They fall in love. They go to school together. There’s this shot where the boy speaks to the girl sitting under the tree. The next shot changes over to both of them suddenly grown up and sits in the tree chatting with smile. You know the magic a filmmaker does? We skip time so fast. So quick. The guy gifts the girl an engagement ring. They hug. Get married. Like it happens in a typical Tamil film song, they also have a baby. The boy grows up. The house opposite to them gets vacated and hence its getting ruined. One fine day, they decide to clean up the house and paint it. The house goes for sale.

A new family buys the house. And here’s the fun part. This little boy looks at the little girl who’s Dad has purchased the house. Probably, Another love story in making!

I like the caption “Sometimes, All a house needs is little love”

Most of you come to StarSai from your office and Youtube might have got banned. So here’s the story in photos.

 

Girl realizes the guy keeps staring at her on her way school but fears to talk to her

 

MAGIC- They grow up..From School to College or may be Working somewhere

Time to get married!

In 3 minutes, it all happens. Baby is born!

 

They find the house opposite where the girl stayed gets ruined. So they clean it up. Now..After painting the house, a buyer really comes farward and the house opposite to where they live gets sold.

A new family which bought the house comes in their car. This little boy looks at the family. A little girl smiles at him.

And there’s something happening..Already

When I saw this ad film, I realized that most of the relationships which eventually grows as a marriage or suffering actually happens due to some probability. Why should you even like this girl/guy when there are so many around you? Why should you be there on time to get attracted to this ‘Someone”. Call it fate or a divine surprise, to me, its all pre-determined. The greatest wisdom you could possibly learn from Sai is this

“Past, Present and Future are divinely interconnected”

That’s why when Baba tells me something unreal, I trust him. Not because I have such desires. I lost it all but its important to trust your Guru for he never plays with your life. Sai makes sure, you only end up in the right hands.

What you might assume as a probability of why a relationship happens is a carefully planned mathemetical formula based on the good and bad deeds you did in this birth and your previous birth.

That’s why they say “Being blessed with a good husband/Wife is a blessing from God”

This morning, I was thinking about Goddess Mahalakshmi and chanting her name. So why did I not say about Mahalakshmi and wrote this article?

StarSai is all about human emotions. Remembering Sai and Gods you love is important but you must also appreciate work of art.

Appreciate people around you.

Thank Sai for the wonderful parents and friends he gave you.

Thank Sai for wonderful songs and music happening around you.

Thank Sai for bringing these creative and affectionate friends who fill your heart with warmth

There’s so much to thank Sai for. You don’t have to worry when one guy/girl isn’t responding to your love.

Your love is always with you. May be there’s someone who deserves it and he/she is on the way.

Love,

Venkat